vendredi 15 août 2014

Understanding How To Mitigate And Resolve Personal Conflict In Your Life From Addiction

By Linda Ruiz


While conflict is a normal, it can cause great harm if it is frequent and mismanaged. If you argue all the time, argument becomes a habit and that leads to addiction and understanding how to mitigate and resolve personal conflict in your life from addiction is the only way out. Below are few ideas that can help you manage your conflict effectively.

Understanding your trouble is the first step to resolving any type of conflict. It means being able to identify the reason why you are always arguing with someone, even when it is not worth. Remember to take into account the effects of the argument as well. Once you understand what is bothering you, take time to think about the other partner now.

Think about what the other person feels when you constantly argue with them. For instance, when a friends argue because of something that already happened in the past, one of them will definitely feel and hurt and terrified that the past is still alive. Their worry is that they past are not only lingering in the mind of the party that started the conflict but also the past is yet to be forgiven.

There must been a reason why you and your partner argued in the first place and while it is normal to find yourself yelling, it could be dangerous if the argument is endless. You and your partner or group of people involved in constant yelling should come together and start to identify the main triggers of the situation. Doing this makes it easy to know what the root cause of the problem is as well as what the best solution is for the problem at hand.

The situation tends to get uglier when two people argue without giving each other a chance to explain themselves. Be wise and listen to the other person explain their side of the story because that is the only way to know the exact source of the problem at hand. When you listen to someone speak, it shows that you care about solving the issue at hand just as much as he or she does.

Now that you have listened to what the other person had to say and had the chance to explain yourself, do not fight back. Instead, agree there has been a problem and have a desire to change. Have a further talk on what the two of you can do to handle matters like the one you have already dealt with in the past and how to live at peace with one another.

Forgive the past and let go. Most people always get back to the conflict and begin arguing repeatedly because they did not forgive the past. You cannot say you have solved conflicts successfully if you are still holding on to the past and not willing to let go. Letting go may seem difficult, but holding to the past is pointless and as well as useless.

Additionally, decide that you want to have a healthy relationship with people. Of course, you will argue from time to time. Just remember not to let the arguments rule you.




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