If your dreams don't scare you a bit, they really aren't big enough.
But it goes past just being scared. There are times when you will be paralyzed in fear. You'll feel the immensity of the dream weighing down on your shoulders. Dreams are dense. They're significantly heavy sometimes. But they also have an incredible lightness about them if you actually give them an opportunity to blossom.
Most people will try and fail at their dream and never try again. But in order to see your dreams through, you have to go after them day after day and keep trying even if you fail. You have to be willing to give up your time, your comfort, and take the constant torment that failure will bring into your life. Dreams will test you in so many ways but they are also our greatest teachers.
When that heavy fear comes in, what can we do?
Nothing really.
Instead of building walls, running from it, or making an attempt to fix it, why can't just sit with it and really feel that fear? When you stop running from your fears and you ask them into your life, a relationship develops.
Start understanding your fears, listening to them, and feeling into them just as you would do with the people in your life. Over the course of time you might begin to develop deep relationships with these emotions and they can eventually become just as vulnerable with you as you are with them. Then, out of your greatest fears, you could build the foundations of your life with rebar from the positive and the negative.
How incredible would that be - to be well situated with your emotions and to create an unbreakable foundation built on your worst fears and your enormous dreams? You would never run again. In fact, you would stand strong through any storm as you are constructed from something that roots itself thousands of feet deep down into the ground and extends miles into the sky above.
Stop running and start facing what scares you. When you face what scares you, you end up realizing you have a whole lot more power than you ever would have thought.
But it goes past just being scared. There are times when you will be paralyzed in fear. You'll feel the immensity of the dream weighing down on your shoulders. Dreams are dense. They're significantly heavy sometimes. But they also have an incredible lightness about them if you actually give them an opportunity to blossom.
Most people will try and fail at their dream and never try again. But in order to see your dreams through, you have to go after them day after day and keep trying even if you fail. You have to be willing to give up your time, your comfort, and take the constant torment that failure will bring into your life. Dreams will test you in so many ways but they are also our greatest teachers.
When that heavy fear comes in, what can we do?
Nothing really.
Instead of building walls, running from it, or making an attempt to fix it, why can't just sit with it and really feel that fear? When you stop running from your fears and you ask them into your life, a relationship develops.
Start understanding your fears, listening to them, and feeling into them just as you would do with the people in your life. Over the course of time you might begin to develop deep relationships with these emotions and they can eventually become just as vulnerable with you as you are with them. Then, out of your greatest fears, you could build the foundations of your life with rebar from the positive and the negative.
How incredible would that be - to be well situated with your emotions and to create an unbreakable foundation built on your worst fears and your enormous dreams? You would never run again. In fact, you would stand strong through any storm as you are constructed from something that roots itself thousands of feet deep down into the ground and extends miles into the sky above.
Stop running and start facing what scares you. When you face what scares you, you end up realizing you have a whole lot more power than you ever would have thought.
About the Author:
Time to take your life to the next level. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about what it means to be living in this world today. You can find some serious inspiration through looking into these Short Life Quotes or these Happy Life Quotes to start facing those fears.
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