Where does confidence come from? Is it something that you are just born with or can we actually inspire confidence in time? Yes, some individuals just seem to have it. But as someone that had it, lost it completely, and had to build it all back from nothing, I'm going to tell you you can do some pretty amazing things with building some iron confidence in your life.
Perhaps you have none in your life right now, or maybe you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you actually nail the tiny stuff, the larger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the little things that truly set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really spend a little bit of time to focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over time, start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something big in life and fail. In reality the majority will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some serious momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again until you get it right.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
Perhaps you have none in your life right now, or maybe you just want some more because you know exactly how much it would aid you with making decisions. But actually, where does this confidence come from? There are these little things I really like to call momentum builders that help you create confidence over time. Confidence, and the development of long lasting confidence comes from the act of sweating the details, the tiny stuff, the things that most people regularly overlook. Why are these momentum builders important? Because when you can nail the small details down, and actually knock those out of the park day in and day out, you build yourself some forward movement. You essentially get yourself out of the mud and heading in a direction. Often, going in any direction is better than not moving at all. You start to say, "Okay, I was capable of doing these things and brought these positive habits into my life..what else am I truly capable of?" Now you are entering into a place of magic. You see, when you actually nail the tiny stuff, the larger things become even more possible. It's when we try to go for the big goal without having the integrity of focusing on the little things that truly set us up for great failure.
So sweat the small stuff. Really spend a little bit of time to focus on the practicable measure of your life, and over time, start going for larger goals. What if you fail? Take a small step back down and refocus on what you can accomplish, and try and try again. This is a pretty simple path towards real success. In fact, the quantum leap is absolutely what you should not be focusing on.
Lots of folks get put off when they try something big in life and fail. In reality the majority will try something 3 times and then give up without every coming back to it. But if you build some serious momentum, you will truly have the confidence to try something over and again and again until you get it right.
Isn't that a much more fun way to live life?
Build some serious momentum behind you and you are really capable of wonderful things.
But first, you must sweat the really small stuff.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author and creator of The Words Of Encouragment, a website dedicated to encouraging others to achieve their dreams and live the best lives possible. So are you ready to start building some self confidence? If so, dive into these self confidence quotes.
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