In all real things, there's a hint of madness.
If there wasn't any amount of uncertainty in this life, everything would lack depth. Without a sense of depth everything is going to be a surface level examination of what's actually going on. If you stay on the surface, you aren't going to dive into the depths of your soul and find out what you are truly made of. There's a tendency these days to completely avoid going into ourselves to discover what is possible and to stay on the surface where everything is quick and easy. While convenient, this isn't where the magic lives. The magic is in living in the place where you can take a leap of faith and build your wings on the way down.
But what if negative emotions and fear crawl in? You have to embrace them.
We live in a world that is riddled with complete chaos. Everything is going so fast that it's a miracle we are even able to keep ourselves together. But if we slow down a bit we are able to tap into all of the direction, wisdom, and security we need. How? Because when we take a moment to stop and appreciate what is going on right now in this moment we can actually see what is here vs. what's always off in the future. We can check in with ourselves and much more easily tap into our relationships with others.
Surface level foundations never work - try building a home on wallpaper.
In order to truly develop, you have to get down to the foundational level and start building from there. If you always stay at the surface level, like I've said before, you continue to play with the wallpaper before the support beams are even built. Priorities matter when you are trying to make serious changes. Keep them straight.
When we dive into real things - those thoughts, emotions, experience - and they are surrounded with some uncertainty and madness, that's how we know we are exactly in the right spot. We are now in the place where there's some room for magic to happen. I keep saying magic because when you give up "knowing" things and fall into being in the unknown more and more, you allow yourself to have your socks knocked off by what life is offering you. Life is much more fun this way.
But you have to do the dirty work at the foundational level first.
So forget about the outer layers and focus on the inner layers first. Focus on building the strongest core and foundation and everything else will fall into place. Build your life on rock solid ground instead of flimsy wallpaper and everything becomes a hell of a lot easier.
Don't survive. Thrive.
If there wasn't any amount of uncertainty in this life, everything would lack depth. Without a sense of depth everything is going to be a surface level examination of what's actually going on. If you stay on the surface, you aren't going to dive into the depths of your soul and find out what you are truly made of. There's a tendency these days to completely avoid going into ourselves to discover what is possible and to stay on the surface where everything is quick and easy. While convenient, this isn't where the magic lives. The magic is in living in the place where you can take a leap of faith and build your wings on the way down.
But what if negative emotions and fear crawl in? You have to embrace them.
We live in a world that is riddled with complete chaos. Everything is going so fast that it's a miracle we are even able to keep ourselves together. But if we slow down a bit we are able to tap into all of the direction, wisdom, and security we need. How? Because when we take a moment to stop and appreciate what is going on right now in this moment we can actually see what is here vs. what's always off in the future. We can check in with ourselves and much more easily tap into our relationships with others.
Surface level foundations never work - try building a home on wallpaper.
In order to truly develop, you have to get down to the foundational level and start building from there. If you always stay at the surface level, like I've said before, you continue to play with the wallpaper before the support beams are even built. Priorities matter when you are trying to make serious changes. Keep them straight.
When we dive into real things - those thoughts, emotions, experience - and they are surrounded with some uncertainty and madness, that's how we know we are exactly in the right spot. We are now in the place where there's some room for magic to happen. I keep saying magic because when you give up "knowing" things and fall into being in the unknown more and more, you allow yourself to have your socks knocked off by what life is offering you. Life is much more fun this way.
But you have to do the dirty work at the foundational level first.
So forget about the outer layers and focus on the inner layers first. Focus on building the strongest core and foundation and everything else will fall into place. Build your life on rock solid ground instead of flimsy wallpaper and everything becomes a hell of a lot easier.
Don't survive. Thrive.
About the Author:
Time to live your dream. Evan Sanders is a professional life coach at AYKME Life Coaching and writes articles about what it means to be living in this world today. You can find some serious inspiration through looking into these Heartbreak Quotes or these Sympathy Quotes to start facing those fears after being beaten up a bit by life.
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