It is important for parents to be free and discuss issues with their children. This should be the case when it comes to sexual matters. This is because your son or daughter will come to know about sex anyway. He will want to know more on the topic. You should be prepared for this so that you are able to answer any question they ask you. Search the internet or discuss with a friend on how to talk to teens about sex.
As a responsible parent you need to take this issue seriously. Find an appropriate time and call your child for a discussion. At the age of 14, it is only right for the child to know the truth when it comes to sex.
When your kid goes to school he may hear other students discuss the issue. They may be saying the wrong things. Therefore, you must shed more light to your teenager. This will help him not to indulge in early intimacy because he will beware of the consequences.
When your child is already seeing someone, it is not the right time to raise the topic. He must have been told earlier before even starting the relationship. When this child grows up, he will appreciate an always remember the things that you taught them. The attitude and tone of your voice should not be harsh. The aim of the discussion is to impart knowledge and not to cause fear in the child.
For the first time, do not reveal so much information to the teen. This is because the topic will sound weir to them. Give him some time and then continue the discussion gradually. In fact, he will be the one coming to you with questions because he wants to know more concerning his sexuality.
It is also helpful to invest in books that will enlighten your boy or girl about puberty and sexuality. The books should be interesting so that the kid is not bored with them. You can ask the bookshop attendant to give you the right books depending on the age of your child. Your intention should not be to advocate for any practice but rather teach morals and knowledge to your generation.
You need to address the topic first with your spouse. Listen to each other and come up with a sober plan on how you can achieve the desired results. Then, you can decide if either of you are going to talk to the kid or; it is one of you who is best suited to do so. This will enhance family unity as well. You should not do things on your own without informing your spouse.
The other thing to watch is the kind of values that the internet or television is teaching your children. Find out the movies and songs the child is listening to. This is because the teenage period is a time that the child will become curious about everything. The child should not be exposed to pornography films. This may create an addiction that as a parent you do not wish for your child. As a consequence, he will become immoral at such an early age and lose respect for the opposite sex.
As a responsible parent you need to take this issue seriously. Find an appropriate time and call your child for a discussion. At the age of 14, it is only right for the child to know the truth when it comes to sex.
When your kid goes to school he may hear other students discuss the issue. They may be saying the wrong things. Therefore, you must shed more light to your teenager. This will help him not to indulge in early intimacy because he will beware of the consequences.
When your child is already seeing someone, it is not the right time to raise the topic. He must have been told earlier before even starting the relationship. When this child grows up, he will appreciate an always remember the things that you taught them. The attitude and tone of your voice should not be harsh. The aim of the discussion is to impart knowledge and not to cause fear in the child.
For the first time, do not reveal so much information to the teen. This is because the topic will sound weir to them. Give him some time and then continue the discussion gradually. In fact, he will be the one coming to you with questions because he wants to know more concerning his sexuality.
It is also helpful to invest in books that will enlighten your boy or girl about puberty and sexuality. The books should be interesting so that the kid is not bored with them. You can ask the bookshop attendant to give you the right books depending on the age of your child. Your intention should not be to advocate for any practice but rather teach morals and knowledge to your generation.
You need to address the topic first with your spouse. Listen to each other and come up with a sober plan on how you can achieve the desired results. Then, you can decide if either of you are going to talk to the kid or; it is one of you who is best suited to do so. This will enhance family unity as well. You should not do things on your own without informing your spouse.
The other thing to watch is the kind of values that the internet or television is teaching your children. Find out the movies and songs the child is listening to. This is because the teenage period is a time that the child will become curious about everything. The child should not be exposed to pornography films. This may create an addiction that as a parent you do not wish for your child. As a consequence, he will become immoral at such an early age and lose respect for the opposite sex.
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