mardi 24 mars 2015

An Article On A Male Perspective On Divorce

By Lelia Hall


The process through which marriage union is brought down to the ground is known as divorce. Here, the man and woman jointly decide that it is in their best interest to go separate ways and based on this, the article below talks about male perspective on divorce and basically how hard some persevere while other just walk out after a few hitches.

To begin with, these species of individuals are very different in the way they think. Some view separation as a way out of a collapsing union. Staying in a bid to try and save the partnership is never an option for them as they term this as time consuming and an unnecessary process.

To others, family comes first. The idea of them having their children being raised by single parents drives them insane and they make a decision to stay no matter what challenges they face. The love of their little ones leads them to view separation as a vice which should be done away with as it torture the people they cared deeply about.

The issue of religion also comes in, in many situations. In most denominations, it is a sin to divorce a wife. Bearing this in mind, their loyalty to their faith makes them hold on to their partners even in the worst situations. They bear in mind that their wife was given to them by a superior being and the hardships they face are just but a test of how strong they can be.

Statistics have gone further and revealed that for those men who sincerely loved their wives, letting go and moving on from the love of their lives has been very hard. They often bear so much pain of grief and loss. It is hard for them to accept the fact that what they hoped would last a lifetime is not here anymore and therefore they have to move on and accept their fate which entail living without them.

The male species do not take the same duration to fully heal. Some take even a few months while for others, this is s just but he beginning of a very long road, one which no one really knows the end. They have to take as much time as possible to completely heal but one thing remains the same; this is the fact that getting into another serious relationship becomes one big nightmare.

Todays laws have made the divorce process very lengthy and tiring. A lot of money is lost in the process and in the event that the issues are many, the court processes take longer than usual which means that extra money has to be spent. Other expenses include child support, custody and also the law stipulates that they are supposed to meet the financial needs of their spouses.

In summary of the above, getting a divorce is one of the hardest decisions a man has to make in his entire life. This means having to let go of a very close person which is not a very easy undertaking but it is usually worthwhile in the long run but careful thought should be invested in this process.




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