mardi 29 mai 2018

Seven Traits That Will Not Lack In Topnotch Marriage Books For Couples

By Douglas Hamilton


A marriage is a long lasting relationship between a man and a woman who decide to live as husband and wife for the rest of their life. It is a commitment that is strengthened by some characteristics that are written in many books by different authors. This article narrows them down to enable everyone to read conveniently. The seven traits that will not lack in topnotch marriage books for couples are well listed below.

Love. When there is love then there is joy, there is peace and there is happiness. Love is what makes a union successful. Love is what breaks the boundaries that were impossible with our physical eyes. Love is what brings forth forgiveness in a relationship. Love is therefore very essential for it will prompt one to ask for forgiveness and prompt the other to forgive at all times.

Respect. Where there is love then respect is also abundant. It is very important for us to understand that respect is very necessary for both sides. The husband needs to be respected and the wife too needs to be treated with respect. The couple must, therefore, ensure that the needs of both sides are met to avoid unnecessary conflicts. Respect helps to avoid unfaithfulness for it is impossible for you to betray the one you respect.

Time. Sharing time with one another is a key factor in healthy relationships and marriages. The two of you must spend some time to know one another before getting into the commitment of a union. The time should not be reduced or even end entirely once you get married or once you have kids. It should advance and even become more as the marriage grows to higher levels. The time that is shared makes the bond stronger each passing day.

Communication. It is important for you to communicate to your lover about your feelings to bridge the gap and avoid misunderstandings. If you are not comfortable with something then feel free to open up and share. Communication should not be by word of mouth only. Romantic gestures such as listening to romantic music together or cuddling together or even a walk are also ways of communicating with your partner.

Satisfaction. Your partner has to satisfy you in all ways. You do not get into a union knowing very well that your partner does not have a certain quality that you need in a man. You also do not indulge in a lifetime commitment knowing that your wife has a quality that you despise so much. If they are not willing to change, look for someone else.

You have to be transparent with your partner on all matters, especially in your financial life. Open a joint account where all your earnings will be going at the end of the month. Then form a habit to inform one another of any withdrawal of money before you do it to avoid chaos.

Appreciation. You have to learn how to appreciate one another. Write thank you notes to your partner just to thank them for being in your life. Take them out from time to time and let them feel special and be part of you. The small gestures that seem of no importance can bring forth a positive impact in the union.




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